Five Emotional Challenges Expats Face—And How to Manage Them

Living abroad can be a transformative and enriching experience, but it may also come with emotional and psychological challenges. In this post, I explore five common emotional hurdles faced by expats—loneliness, cultural adjustments, career uncertainty, relationship strains, and stress—and offer practical, evidence-based strategies to help expats manage them. Drawing from personal and professional experience, this piece provides insights, tools, and support to navigate the ups and downs of relocation.

Fabio Marcovski, Ph.D.

1/5/20255 min leer

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Brazil is home to a thriving expatriate community, with hundreds of thousands of immigrants choosing to work and live in Brazil. Many professionals and families look forward to living in this tropical country of continental sizes, to explore the warmth that is unique to the Brazilian climate and culture. Moving to Brazil, no doubt, may stir excitement and a sense of adventure and come with opportunities for growth, exploration, and personal development. But starting life anew in a foreign land might also bring emotional and psychological challenges.

Having lived abroad for almost fifteen years myself, I know firsthand the excitement and challenges associated living in a new country. Establishing a home away from what’s familiar may spark many emotions and difficulties, including feelings of homesickness, adjustment issues, cultural dilemmas, as if moving across the world wasn't hard work already... Acculturation issues, immigration stress, career transitions, language barriers are serious. However, both research evidence and consistent professional experiences suggest that, with appropriate support and strategies, these issues, too, may become manageable.

In this piece, I explore five emotional hurdles expats face. I also discuss practices that may help expats cope and make the most out of your new environment.

Loneliness

Moving away from familiar places, family, friends, and support networks may leave expats feeling disconnected and lonely, particularly in the initial stages of relocation. Loneliness may increase when language barriers or cultural differences make it harder to form new connections. With so much left behind and one-way tickets used up, expats may feel isolated, especially when everyone around seems so cheerful and jolly. It’s important to recognize that integration and belonging take time and demand effort. Establishing a new network doesn't happen overnight, and may require persistence and even good fortune as well. Local expat groups online, such as Meetup and InterNations, may help by providing spaces to connect, share experiences, and build relationships with others facing similar transitions.. Others choose to leverage communication technologies to stay in touch with family and friends from afar, which, to some, can help bridge emotional gaps. (There must be a balance, of course, between connecting locally and staying in touch with people left behind.) For many expats, however, finding adequate professional support can provide relief, guidance, and clarity as we make sense of these experiences and design a plan that feels aligned with one's needs and values.

Cultural Adjustments & Identity Shifts

Adjusting to a new culture, no doubt may feel disorienting to most. I remember my first weeks at the University of Pennsylvania, in Philadelphia, wondering whether I would ever fit in with the academic community I suddenly found myself facing daily. From unfamiliar customs to language barriers, international students and professionals may face cultural stressors and question aspects of their own identity while hoping to adapt to their new surroundings. Am I setting enough boundaries, or might my boundaries be too rigid? Is it ok to say 'no' to after-hours mingling, or might others perceive my preferences as aloofness? We all go through these cultural dilemmas when embracing a new country as home. For expats, it may help to recognize that culture shock is phasic, may come with unknowns, adjustments, but may lead to integration. Allowing ourselves time and monitoring our experiences through journaling, for example, may help. Of course, engaging with the local reality via language classes, cultural workshops, local festivals may help connection, as might keeping one's personal traditions and practices to maintain one’s identity grounded as well.

Immigration, Career-Related, and Professional Uncertainty

Navigating career transitions in Brazil or wherever might also stir insecurity whether due to language barriers, immigration-related restrictions, or adjusting to new professional norms. Having attended undergraduate and graduate school in the United States, I remember every single visa application and each arrival into customs and border control across U.S. airports. Though not every country maintains the same standards and strictness that the U.S. has been famous for, many expats experience immigration-related and career-based stress at some point along their transition. Managing these issues requires creativity, diligence, and a solid dose of hope and humor. How else, right? Recognize that your international experience is a major asset in Brazil; attend professional events, connect with business groups geared toward expats and international professionals. Others with similar needs and constraints await to hear you. Plus, few locals truly appreciate the unique combination of resilience and flexibility that expats and immigrants master through years—and decades—of adapting, adjusting, and managing change and uncertainty.These are strengths.

Relationship Strains and Family Pressures

Moving abroad may also impacts family and intimate relationships. Whether maintaining long-distance connections with family and friends across multiple time zones or adapting to new dynamics with partners and children, everything in the life of an expatriate changes. Weren't all the intrinsic demands of moving enough, these strains may become a burden to daily life. For many, setting regular video or phone calls to nurture distant relationships helps. Make it a point to develop new local friendships and connections to balance emotional support. Staying persistent despite the misses is key, as is seeking professional support and counseling to tackle communication issues associated with interpersonal issues, relational barriers, and cross-cultural hurdles as well.

Stress and Burnout

Adapting and adjusting to new circumstances is hard work, and may bring cumulative, compounding effects. Based on personal experience, I guarantee was one person on the first day of my Ph.D. program at Columbia University and another on graduation day. Building new routines, managing uncertainty may bring in stress which, unchecked, may result in burnout, especially when the standards of our new environment are high. (I don't know how I would have managed the load of a rigorous academic and professional program without prioritizing well-being practices.) I strongly encourage evidence-based practices based on mindfulness, physical activity, journaling, and scheduled downtime. All of these remain as relevant to me now as they were in my first few days of the Ph.D program at Columbia and earlier. Protecting a weekly window to self-reflection and for personal therapy also can bring much clarity and help in times of need associated with immigration and expatriate needs.

Conclusion

Relocating abroad is one of life’s most transformative experiences—filled with excitement, growth, and challenges that test resilience and adaptability. Being an expat, of course, has many rewards, including adventure, growth, and emotional learning. At the same time, relocating, like any major life transition, comes with ups and downs. By acknowledging these challenges and taking steps to address them, expats can create fulfilling and balanced lives in Brazil and wherever they choose to live. With the right support, even the most emotional conditions might be managed.If you’re an expatriate or international professional in Brazil and find yourself facing emotional hurdles, know that professional support in English, Spanish, or Portuguese exists. Having been gone through such transitions myself, I may be equipped to help make meaning out of the experience and provide evidence-based tools and support. Feel free to contact me at so we may assess how I might be of most help to you and your journey.